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Over decades upon probably centuries one of the most controversial and most talked about aspects of Islam to Westerners has always been the hijab(the head scarf that a large majority of muslim women wear). It has been the popular perception of many in the western world that the hijab is a symbol of oppression, the lack of regard for woman’s rights, a male dominated religion/culture, or, to some even the sign of a terrorist. 

The reality is, such misconceptions are absurdly false, and truly show the lack of effort of individuals to find out for themselves the true reasons why cultures,societies, and individuals outside of their traditional paradigmes function in the way they do.

After holding jobs in education, human rights, and development within the Arab world as well as engaging in conversation with many American muslims over the past few years, I’ve found that the hijab is rarely a product of opression, lack of basic human rights, a male dominated culture, or even extremism. In reality, the hijab is usually worn for the following reasons:

1. An expression of submission to God

2. An expression of religious conviction to the Prophets(pbuh) call for modest dress

3. An act of identification or expression of one’s cultural/ethnic background

4. A fashion statement(I know this point will draw some criticism, but its true, and Arabs/Muslims throughout the Arab world I believe would back me on this…this actually came from numerous discussions with muslims in the arab world that cover.)

Doing something as an expression of submission to God is an honorable trait that I think most of the world and its many religions(and the more closely related to Islam; Judaism and Christianity) would have no problem with due to the fact that its something that most strive to live out in their practice. There’s nothing oppressive, violent, or injustice about such a pursuit.Modest dress, though debated for generations among religious leaders on what that really means, is again a virtue of value found in both Judisim, Christianity, Buddhism, and variations of Hinduism. Though modesty has become more of a choice rather then principle that is for the betterment of one’s life in alot of the western world, most westerners would agree that there’s nothing wrong with modesty.

Wearing the hijab as an act of identification or expression of ones cultural/ethnic background is something I believe most of us can identify with. Expression of oneself, and the freedom to do so has been one of the primary virtues and rights that us westerners have come come to value and pushed forward over the last century . For Arab women, the hijab, can express much about her cultural background. In most countries within the Arab world there are Muslims that are from various different countries due to tribal migration, war, or the opportunity for employment is simply better. There are different ways to wear your hijab based on what country you come from and, at times, even what city you come from. Palestinians, Jordanians, Syrians, Emiraties, Sudanese, Iraqies all have their own unique way to wrap the hijab. Its a rather beautiful arrangement of art really, cultures so similar, yet, with their own unique touch on a shared blueprint.

Finally, after many conversations with Muslim friends from various regions of the Middle East and North Africa, I found that one of the most interesting reasons for head scarf adornment is due to the want to either fit in, look beautiful, or be cool. Some of my hijab wearing friends have told me that some women literally choose to wear the scarf not for religious reasons but rather because they want to make a fashion statement OR because everyone else is doing it. Any westerner who attended high-school or was every young can relate to this.

The Right to Choose?

Westerners tend to have this perception also that the hijab is something that is forced on the women by the male-dominated culture they live in. In some extreme cases, like Saudi Arabia and other gulf countries, the hijab OR even more conservative abaya is required by law, but most middle eastern/north african countries dont require the headscarf by law. In a majority of these countries, these women/girls make the choice on their own to express the following points listed previously. In the rare occurrence of family required hijab wearing, its very common that its the mother of the family that requires her daughter to wear the head scarf and not the man, which is the common perception among foreigners. 

All this being said, this post is not denying that at times in Islamic cultures the man will require his daughters or his wife to cover OR that the headscarf has never been unjustly forced on certain women, its merely trying to express that such acts are infrequent. 

Response

The hijab must no longer be a symbol of fear or catalyst for those of us outside of hijab wearing cultures to justify discrimination towards arabs both within the arab world as well as those living within our respective borders internationally. I encourage all those internationally that tend to question and condemn the practices of other cultures and religions to step out of their personal world view and actively seek to learn about the things unknown and scary to you. You may find that at times though you think you are speaking on the side of justice you are actually speaking on the side of ignorance. 

Credibility of Claims

Some may question the credibility of this post and thats fair. I only speak of what I’ve experienced, interacted with, and researched upon my time working within the Arab world. Some may also question if the article is biased or written from a Muslim perspective. If this is the case, it may help the reader to know that this post has been written by an American who follows Jesus and has lived most his life on the West Coast(its the best coast!!) of the US of A.My culture of origin did not project this opinion upon me nor am I from a family that was influenced by a culture that valued the hijab. I simply came to this conclusion based on lots of personal research and interacting with those of a culture in which the hijab is present. It is my hope that this post will help break down the many negative and unjust perceptions many have of those who wear the hijab.